IS YOUR BABY WAKING OUT OF “HUNGER” OR “HABIT”?
- Monica Naidu
- Dec 17, 2024
- 4 min read
Parenthood is a beautiful journey filled with joy, but it can also be incredibly tiring, especially when your baby’s night wakings become a recurring challenge. Sometimes it can be hard to tell if your baby is waking out of hunger or habit at 2 am.
We often hear about the elusive goal of getting babies to “sleep through the night,” but did you know that even adults experience night wakings? These awakenings are a natural part of our sleep cycles.
In this blog post, we’ll explore the delicate balance between hunger and habit as potential causes of your baby’s night wakings. I will provide you with essential tips to help you understand and address this issue.
Understanding baby sleep cycles 🔁
To unravel the mystery of your baby’s night wakings, it’s crucial to understand sleep cycles. Initially, newborns have only two sleep cycles.
However, around 3-4 months, they experience a significant shift, adding two more sleep cycles to their sleep. It’s completely normal for babies to wake between these cycles. The key to helping them sleep through the night lies in their ability to fall back asleep independently and connect these cycles.
Is your baby waking out of hunger or habit?🍼
If your baby can independently fall asleep but still wakes up crying during the night, it’s a clear sign that they need something. The question is, what do they need?
Distinguishing between comfort feeding and genuine hunger can be challenging. Here’s how to tell the difference:
Hunger: A hungry baby actively feeds, takes a full feeding, and is typically easy to lay back down in their crib / bed afterward.
Comfort Feeding: Comfort feeding involves suckling at the breast or bottle, similar to using a pacifier, or nursing or feeding briefly.
Hunger related wake ups 🥱
For babies under 4 to 6 months or those who are underweight, nighttime feedings may still be necessary. Sleep training doesn’t mean you have to eliminate these essential feeds. Most babies with independent sleep skills naturally drop night feeds when they’re ready, as they don’t rely on them solely to fall back asleep. However, the timing varies from baby to baby.
Some may sleep 6-8 hours without a night feed as early as 3-4 months, while others may continue nighttime feeds closer to 6 months. It all depends on your specific baby.
To determine if your baby is waking due to hunger, consider the duration of their longest sleep stretch. If they’ve slept for 5+ hours but now wake every 2 hours, it’s likely not hunger-related, and other soothing methods can be employed.
Habit related wake ups 😵💫
Babies quickly adapt to the sleep associations they’re introduced to. If your baby has always relied on being fed, rocked, or held to fall asleep, they may continue to need these associations when they wake during the night.
As babies grow and go through developmental milestones or sleep regressions, new sleep disturbances can emerge. In these instances, you might resort to offering a feeding, rocking, or a pacifier to help them get back to sleep. While these strategies may work temporarily, they can lead to long-lasting habits that persist beyond the initial cause.
The good news is that you have the power to choose which habits or sleep skills you introduce to your baby. You can decide when to introduce them and how you react to night wakings.
Addressing night wakings 🤱🏼
When your baby’s night wakings are causing exhaustion, here are some steps to help both you and your baby get back on track:
Early Bedtime: Ensure your baby isn’t overtired by keeping their bedtime early. During the adjustment period, consider moving bedtime even earlier than usual.
Regular Naps: If your baby is overtired, make sure they get the naps they need, even if that means using strategies like contact naps or car rides. Napping well during the day can improve nighttime sleep.
Watch Wake Windows: Pay attention to your baby’s wake windows to prevent overtiredness and understand their cues, whether they’re tired or hungry.
Establish a Consistent Routine: Consistency in bedtime and nap routines has been shown to help babies sleep longer and better. Look into a science-backed routine for optimal results.
Conclusion ✅
Understanding whether your baby’s night wakings are due to hunger or habit is essential for both your baby’s well-being and your sanity. While deciphering your baby’s needs can be overwhelming, remember that consistency is key. If you’re struggling to tackle night wakings, consider exploring our detailed sleep course for step-by-step guidance. With patience and the right approach, you can help your baby master the art of sleeping through the night, giving both of you the rest you deserve.
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I’ll also help you set up a daytime routine and nap schedule that fits your family’s lifestyle and values. And you’ll get age-specific guidance to meet your baby right where he or she is developmentally at every stage from now until your baby turns 2.
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